Can We Trust Even When Life Feels Scary?

I used to think that if I planned well enough, I could keep my life safe and steady. I thought being in control was the same as being happy. Life doesn’t always follow our plans. Lately, my world has felt like a storm. Between the deaths of five people, my son’s transition after prison, and my sister’s diagnosis with breast cancer, the ground has felt very shaky. I’ve learned that when the world is chaotic, I can’t control what happens outside. Instead, I am continuing on my journey as the “architect” of my own heart.

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When things feel overwhelming, we often find ourselves in a knot of Thoughts, Emotions, and Actions (T.E.A.). Our thoughts try to anticipate the “what-ifs,” emotions feel heavy, and actions become frantic as we try to fix things we cannot control. Being an architect isn’t about stopping the storm. It’s about building a strong, safe house inside ourselves so we can stay standing while the wind blows. 

I can’t change a medical diagnosis or a legal situation; however, I can choose how I show up for myself and the people I love.

Trusting isn’t about knowing exactly how things will turn out. It’s about knowing that I have the strength to handle whatever happens next. It’s about being kind to myself, setting boundaries that protect my heart, and finding peace in the middle of the mess.

It is why I wrote my 4-week course.  If you are going through a hard season and feel like you’re losing your footing, I want to help. My T.E.A. Course is a place to learn to untangle our thoughts, emotions, and actions to find your calm again. I’d love for you to join the healing journey.

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We all have a will to be creative. We can’t help it, it’s in our DNA. Today I’m going to continue last month’s blog about entrepreneurship. Now you may ask “What if I don’t want to be an entrepreneur?” That’s OK. No matter what you’re doing with your life, the “ahas” I gained from the last GLS (Global Leadership Summit) seminar apply to any aspect of life.


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Let’s begin with the “start up spirit.” It’s not only about starting a business. It’s about making shifts, even tiny ones in your behavior that can have an outsized impact in how you live. Often people tell me they don’t want to be in sales. Yet we sell ourselves every day.


Think about it. Even a mother “sells” her kids on the idea of dressing for school or cleaning their rooms.  Trust me; it’s much easier to get kids to move when they are sold on the idea of doing it!
So whether it’s business or personal, dare to make a switch. Instead of you being the seller of an idea or product; be the customer. How do you like to be treated by others? How do you like to receive information? Regardless of what your life goals are when you take note of your interactions with others – it’s easier to see that your actions do impact them.


Now when it comes to starting a business, many of us unconsciously shut off the entrepreneur within us. What we need to do is switch the “startup mindset” on. How? Get out there and let the creativity come out naturally!  Don’t feel you need to have all the answers. Instead, give yourself permission to ask stupid questions. Think of yourself as a tourist in a new city. Observe everything and see what needs to be changed. Remember when I said to do something you truly believe in? It’s because when you believe in your product, you already understand how it can make positive changes for yourself and your customers.


So far I’ve specifically talked about mothers and entrepreneurs. What about those who work in the corporate world? The same ideas apply. If you have an idea about your job, it is not enough to simply have the idea. Act on it to move it forward and give it momentum.  Anything that’s worth doing is worth doing badly. And don’t wait for perfection. If you do, it won’t happen. Perfection is an illusion. Work towards making progress rather than perfection. For example, a mentor said to me years ago “You are full of great ideas. When are you going to put them into action?” Thanks to that hard-loving truth, I now tell you what I have done…not what I am going to do.


Entrepreneurship is about taking a good, deep-down look at the person you see in the mirror. We all have a star where we belong – and we will shine. It’s our life purpose to find it and know that every day…whatever we do…we make a difference for someone else. Unlocking your “start up” mindset is not only about business success; it’s about personal growth and greatness.


By now I’m sure you can see how enthusiastic I am about this! I love learning new ideas on how to find my purpose and expand my personal life along with my business. If you or anyone you know wants to talk about how to do the same or to get started, contact me HERE or call/text me at 480-684-2866. I believe we’re in an exciting new era. Let’s see how we can make the most of it in the future!!


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