Can We Trust Even When Life Feels Scary?

I used to think that if I planned well enough, I could keep my life safe and steady. I thought being in control was the same as being happy. Life doesn’t always follow our plans. Lately, my world has felt like a storm. Between the deaths of five people, my son’s transition after prison, and my sister’s diagnosis with breast cancer, the ground has felt very shaky. I’ve learned that when the world is chaotic, I can’t control what happens outside. Instead, I am continuing on my journey as the “architect” of my own heart.

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When things feel overwhelming, we often find ourselves in a knot of Thoughts, Emotions, and Actions (T.E.A.). Our thoughts try to anticipate the “what-ifs,” emotions feel heavy, and actions become frantic as we try to fix things we cannot control. Being an architect isn’t about stopping the storm. It’s about building a strong, safe house inside ourselves so we can stay standing while the wind blows. 

I can’t change a medical diagnosis or a legal situation; however, I can choose how I show up for myself and the people I love.

Trusting isn’t about knowing exactly how things will turn out. It’s about knowing that I have the strength to handle whatever happens next. It’s about being kind to myself, setting boundaries that protect my heart, and finding peace in the middle of the mess.

It is why I wrote my 4-week course.  If you are going through a hard season and feel like you’re losing your footing, I want to help. My T.E.A. Course is a place to learn to untangle our thoughts, emotions, and actions to find your calm again. I’d love for you to join the healing journey.

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Last week I shared how I earned a trip to the Bahamas. As you’ll recall, this took 2-3 years of dedicating a lot of time, effort, and some stress to accomplish. Here are two things I hope you can take away from this blog.
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First, when you read 2-3 years, it may not sound that long. However, as my mom used to say, “The days are long and the years are short.” Keep in mind that on top of a full-time job, I committed a couple of nights a week, every week, and weekends (even ones where I took little trips, like at the dunes) to make this happen.

Second is to understand that I was doing this to meet my financial needs and hopefully gain financial independence – not to earn a trip. Honestly, I had heard from top leaders about Avon having trips like this, but never thought I would be on one, or even knew what was required, which is why I returned the call to say they had the ‘wrong’ Mary!

So let me put in a plug for Avon here.

Back in 2006, when I paid $10 to get started, I thought I would by a few products and that would be it. It didn’t take long to realize how amazing the products were – along with the unlimited earning opportunities. Right now there is no cost to join with the product line continuing to expand. This is not to say it’s easy, yet choosing Avon has been instrumental in my success. The support I received from Barb and earning the all-expenses-paid Bahamas trip encouraged me to keep going, especially when I felt ready to give up.

Believe me; the all-expenses-paid trip was wonderful. It made me appreciate the fact that I had earned it based on my efforts. Along with lots of good food and balmy breezes, I mingled with other successful representatives whom I had previously heard speak on calls. It was amazing to meet them in person and get even more ideas on how to better approach and work my business.
For example…
It takes an average of 3-5 years to build a business…and…you have to fail a lot before you succeed. Hearing stories of successes and failures made me realize (once again) that I had to measure progress, not perfection. It was a comfort to know that they too had times when it was a struggle to keep going.
I also learned how to expand my network by joining my local Chamber of Commerce (which I finally did in January of 2020) as well as adding more networking events. Talking to as many people one-on-one as possible is an invaluable tool for improving both business and personal accomplishments. That’s why I’m happy to have you text or call me at 480-684-2866 or click HERE to see how I can help you progress to where you want to be in life.

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