Can We Trust Even When Life Feels Scary?

I used to think that if I planned well enough, I could keep my life safe and steady. I thought being in control was the same as being happy. Life doesn’t always follow our plans. Lately, my world has felt like a storm. Between the deaths of five people, my son’s transition after prison, and my sister’s diagnosis with breast cancer, the ground has felt very shaky. I’ve learned that when the world is chaotic, I can’t control what happens outside. Instead, I am continuing on my journey as the “architect” of my own heart.

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When things feel overwhelming, we often find ourselves in a knot of Thoughts, Emotions, and Actions (T.E.A.). Our thoughts try to anticipate the “what-ifs,” emotions feel heavy, and actions become frantic as we try to fix things we cannot control. Being an architect isn’t about stopping the storm. It’s about building a strong, safe house inside ourselves so we can stay standing while the wind blows. 

I can’t change a medical diagnosis or a legal situation; however, I can choose how I show up for myself and the people I love.

Trusting isn’t about knowing exactly how things will turn out. It’s about knowing that I have the strength to handle whatever happens next. It’s about being kind to myself, setting boundaries that protect my heart, and finding peace in the middle of the mess.

It is why I wrote my 4-week course.  If you are going through a hard season and feel like you’re losing your footing, I want to help. My T.E.A. Course is a place to learn to untangle our thoughts, emotions, and actions to find your calm again. I’d love for you to join the healing journey.

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However, not all was smooth. I experienced a scam on my bank account…and my son continues to struggle to stay sober. I will hold off talking about these events until next year because they, along with election fatigue, tell me it’s time to talk about celebrating the holidays. And for good reason! I have some easy, terrific ideas to make your holiday shopping experience so much fun this year!

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Avon’s gift guide is the best I’ve seen yet. Whether you’re buying for others…or treating yourself…the variety of items could make this your one-stop shop. For instance, cooler weather calls for warmer slippers, and we have a cuddly variety to choose from. Jewelry items include year-round bling along with holiday gems. I especially love the “Holiday Box Wrapped Presents Pin.” It’s unique to Avon and won’t be around for long. 

If you’re interested in holiday décor, we have fun items like the “Santa Hanging Door and Wall Light-up with Sound.”   For something more spiritual, the “Wooden Lighted Nativity” scene adds a special glow to any room.

Of course, there’s always Avon’s beauty line. One of my customers always buys the 3.4-ounce Skin So Soft tubes for stocking stuffers. With hundreds of reviews for each variety, this is a guaranteed go-to gift. And if you want to share our newest skin renewal products, you’ll find “Beyond Glow” gift sets with serums and creams.

As you can see, I hyperlinked these ideas so you can go directly to the catalog. As always, if you’d like some guidance, call or text me at 480-684-2866 – or click HERE for any questions. You too can have a Joyful shopping season with Avon!

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