Can We Trust Even When Life Feels Scary?

I used to think that if I planned well enough, I could keep my life safe and steady. I thought being in control was the same as being happy. Life doesn’t always follow our plans. Lately, my world has felt like a storm. Between the deaths of five people, my son’s transition after prison, and my sister’s diagnosis with breast cancer, the ground has felt very shaky. I’ve learned that when the world is chaotic, I can’t control what happens outside. Instead, I am continuing on my journey as the “architect” of my own heart.

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When things feel overwhelming, we often find ourselves in a knot of Thoughts, Emotions, and Actions (T.E.A.). Our thoughts try to anticipate the “what-ifs,” emotions feel heavy, and actions become frantic as we try to fix things we cannot control. Being an architect isn’t about stopping the storm. It’s about building a strong, safe house inside ourselves so we can stay standing while the wind blows. 

I can’t change a medical diagnosis or a legal situation; however, I can choose how I show up for myself and the people I love.

Trusting isn’t about knowing exactly how things will turn out. It’s about knowing that I have the strength to handle whatever happens next. It’s about being kind to myself, setting boundaries that protect my heart, and finding peace in the middle of the mess.

It is why I wrote my 4-week course.  If you are going through a hard season and feel like you’re losing your footing, I want to help. My T.E.A. Course is a place to learn to untangle our thoughts, emotions, and actions to find your calm again. I’d love for you to join the healing journey.

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However, I would be remiss if I didn’t bring up what’s going on with Avon right now and show you how to make this a great Christmas for you and your family.


Too early???  I don’t think so….


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As you are reading or listening to this, you should know the first Christmas catalog is available! You don’t want to miss this!


 As you already know, Avon’s beauty products are legendary. In previous blogs I have shared items that not only make your life easier, but are great gifts – even for those who are hard to shop for. What you might not be aware of is that Avon also offers fashion. This year you can get unique fashion pieces as easily as you order your next mascara.


I’m especially excited because of an opportunity (yes, another one!) I had with Avon. Every two weeks the company offers a training session called the “A-list Show” to support each new campaign. It includes tips, strategies, and recent highlights presented by Dee, who chooses a co-host to assist with each show. For the last two years, I dreamed of having her select me. I knew it would be a lot of fun, and sharing tips with other Avon reps always brings me joy. In August I attended our national convention and this time, Dee and I were able to connect.


A month after the convention my phone rang. It was Dee…inviting me to co-host the A List!!!
The show aired on October 16th.


I was so honored and excited to be in front of thousands of Avon reps to introduce the latest information on new products…and how to help our customers benefit the most from our company. Now we all know how fast the end of the year flies by, which is why I’m reminding you to check out our virtual flippable brochurenow to view the incredible variety of gifts that Avon has to offer. You can also view everything we have to offer on my online store. You can also call or text me at 480-684-2866! Shopping early for everyone on your list is the best way I know how to remove that last-minute stress of what should be a joyful season.

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